I agree with him that "forced love" is not true love. Only when both parties in a relationship freely love the other, is it truly a love relationship. My problem with this guy's argument lies in his assumption that sinful humans, in and of themselves, can choose God at all! Let me show my point with Scripture.
For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.Romans 8:7-8
In the same way we also, when we were children, were enslaved to the elementary principles of the world.Galatians 4:3But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed,Romans 6:17We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.Romans 6:6The heart is deceitful above all things, desperately sick; who can understand it.Jeremiah 17:9
I think its very clear from the Bible that man, in and of himself, will never choose God, have faith in God, or submit to God. These verses present a problem for those who think that a man or woman's will is the determining factor in their salvation. I am not saying the human will is not involved in or crucial to salvation. I will comment on that later tonight after I cook dinner.